Finding our destiny in the way of Jesus

I Thessalonians 5:9-11 For God has destined us not for wrath but for obtaining salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, who died for us, so that whether we are awake or asleep we may live with him. Therefore encourage one another and build up each other, as indeed you are doing. I asked Google how wrath manifests and this was the list that came up: Shouting, cursing, sharp criticism, threatening language, slamming doors, throwing or breaking objects, direct physical harm to others, purposefully seeking revenge, plotting to get back at someone, targeted hostility, volatile rage, or sudden, explosive surges of fury where judgment is temporarily impaired. Indeed, I believe strongly that God has not destined us for these things. These concepts are the opposite of who God is and what God does, and since we are made in the image of God, they should be the opposite of who we are and what we do. Instead, as the scriptures suggest, we are supposed to encourage one another and bui